In this installment of Practical Magic, Lisa Stardust offers tips on making Midsummer more queer. Always remember that magic is for believers, but this column can also simply serve as a guide to getting in touch with yourself — magically or not.
If you’ve read or seen A Midsummer Night’s Dream, you’re familiar with the dreamy and fantastical vibes that can come with late June. We’re talking flowers, forests, and fairies — a full on magical delight. But Midsummer is an actual Scandinavian festival celebrating the longest days of the year, and the beginning of the sweetest season.
Midsummer traditionally occurs between June 19 and 25. These are the longest days of the year, as summer is beginning and the sun is shining higher and brighter than ever. We can lean into our purest form and revel in the awesome solar power that’s being bestowed upon us. While the roots of Midsummer festivals may date back to ancient times, it’s particularly popular in Sweden, where Midsummer festivals honor what’s said to be a magical time, filled with love and abundance.
Since the sun represents vitality and power, Midsummer is also the perfect time to have a Pride party with friends. It’s a magical time in which we can embrace our true selves and plant seeds for the future, which is why it’s prime time to have a wonderful celebration of the self and community.
Here are some ways to have the ultimate Midsummer x Pride party:
Invite all your friends to celebrate.
Being that Midsummer is all about community, it’s important to invite everyone to your party. Make a general post on social media describing the festivities in celebration. Let everyone who wants to participate in the event have the opportunity to attend your Midsummer party. Plus, it is an excellent way to engage with people who you have lost touch with and to meet new friends (if your guests bring a plus one or three).
Flowers are a must.
Flowers represent the circle of life. The sun is the vital life force for us all, so it makes sense that floral arrangements are key to this celebration. Sunflowers represent the sun, which is why they’re often the flower of choice. Dahlias, hydrangeas, and lavender can also brighten up any party. But go with whatever’s in bloom in your region — that way you’re harnessing the energy of the sun and earth around you. Other decorations should include rainbows — a symbol of the earth but also of LGBTQ Pride.
Dress the part.
Put on light clothing to reflect the environment around you. Being that these are the longest days of the year, it’s important to lean into the merriments of the solar element. In Sweden, where Midsummer festivals thrive, people wear flower crowns in their hair. The brighter and bolder the colors, the better. Please note that shoes are optional, as you may want to go barefoot to fully connect with this season.